.....It's taken me a lifetime to become confident and secure as to who I am and it's through developing this confidence in my own identity through taking action which has allowed me to be authentic to who I am within the context of a relationship. So, the way that you experience me today is precisely the way how everyone would experience me in other areas of my life. For those that love and respect me and know me well, will tell you that I'm consistent and reliable and that they at least know where they stand with me unless I’m being judged in some way.
You don't have to believe me and who I claim to be because up until now you'd have absolutely no reason to, but what I have learned over the years is that trust is earned and cannot be asked for or just given. It cannot be demanded; it cannot be commanded, and it can't be unconditionally expected by anyone.
I've grown to learn that all relationships are based solely upon trust and trust is developed over time. It's developed through a person's consistency, through their authenticity, through their integrity and reliability and unless I deliver you some value through my coaching or workshops, then you're never going to see me as credible, and you would have absolutely no reason ever to trust me again.
If there's no trust between two people, then there is no healthy relationship and I appreciate that. This may sound simplistic, but I can also guarantee you that this is very true for anyone who is wanting to move forward in their relationships, who are wishing to build better relationships, more rewarding relationships and more exciting relationships.
Relationships like these are something that we all want. It’s something that I want, and it’s something that most people want, and I can only assume that it's something that you want too.
Back in 2017 it took me to lose someone that I cared about and loved before realising that the quality of my life was determined solely by the quality of my relationships at the time and that story I will share with you during my workshop. Even the quality of my emotional life was, in some way, connected to the quality of my relationships.
I don't know what your current relationship situation is, and I don't know where you find yourself in life today, but there is one thing that I'm sure of and that’s your relationship is not perfect, and neither was mine and nor will they be in the future. However, that said, they can be more rewarding. They can be more exciting, and they can move forward. They don't have to be superficial and shallow ever again.
You see, if you make this investment into yourself, I know that if you do, you are going to be well on the way towards getting a whole lot more from exactly what it is that you do want from your relationships and other important areas of your life.